It will only come back when the desire to be out has been quenched.Sadly, the saying is used to explain and justify promiscuity that is rampant in society and which is believed to have been passed on from tradition where it was believed every man was free to have as many wives as he pleased.
What he means is that contemporary Africans have adopted the values, tastes and behaviour of the coloniser to an extent that they only appear black in skin colour but think and behave like their teacher and role model, the white man.
As a result, there is a great need to verify which of the two traditions has had an impact on the Shona man's character today.
The Reasons so Many African Women Abroad are Single.
Perceived shortage of decent men in the West: Almost all the women interviewed shared the opinion that it is quite uncommon to come across single men with good character these days.
The first saying is used to condone man's behaviour, of hoping from one woman to another.