Instead of the three-date rule for sex, make it the four-date rule for sleeping over.Make it a four-date rule to make her feel comfortable.As well as annoying, or perhaps even hurting, the person you’re making wait around, you’re also wasting your own time.
Give her a pair of pajamas, spoon her and make her feel safe and comfortable.
When you do that, she’s going to be aching to have sex with you, and it doesn’t matter what date it is.
It is heartbreaking to see them make the same mistakes over and over again.
All too often, I see friends continually devastated by their dating experiences. Don’t give them your power by allowing yourself to feel bad.
If they have any sense they will have found someone a bit more worthy to go out with – someone who will get in touch with them when it matters.