Or, should she keep letting the guy initiate plans until they are actually in a relationship? The situation that you’re describing actually illustrates something that I’ve talked about before.In previous posts, I’ve talked about how when a guy is being flaky, doesn’t text back, or isn’t doing something you want him to do, the worst response is to become needy. 4th profile and so if anyone's met me please be kind enough to re-verify me- I'll make it worth your while.
When it comes to people, it doesn’t matter what you think people should respond to – it only matters what they actually do respond to.
If you like this guy, go with what seems to be working best with him – give him space and let him put the effort in.
If you hit a breaking point, there’s nothing wrong with putting your thoughts out there and letting him know where you’re coming from.
If you reach that point, just make sure you are clear on what you really want yourself, say what you need to say and be done with the conversation.
In general, there’s nothing wrong with you initiating plans with a guy.