When you do meet THE ONE, you'll have skills and tools in place to enjoy friendships with people you find attractive without it being more than that. This is the guy you meet out in real life—at Starbucks or your friend's birthday.
It also lets you and PINER remain friends because you never "went there! Keep an open heart and mind and most importantly, keep your flirt light on. There's a door that needs to remain open for possibility.
" Practicing with a PINER makes these relationships possible. At some point THE WILDCARD could walk in and go right to the head of the line. And be sure to schedule one personal day for yourself every two weeks.
The thing is…remember when our parents told us not to do something and it always made that "thing" appear more attractive? THE WILDCARD will help you stay at the top of your game and always looking your best. Not only will you grow as a person but these are great places to meet a WILDCARD.
For example, I met up with a guy whose profile picture wasn't exactly my type, but hey, he liked comedy and had an adorable profile and picked a dope restaurant. Another was a surfer in Hermosa Beach who on the surface lacked ambition but that Modern Art Museum membership he had was good enough for me to check him out while we both checked out the new collection. Or perhaps you love '80s music—this guy used to be an exec at Capitol Records!
Step 2: Assemble 5 Good guys Here's who you need: The Professor: A guy who's an expert on a topic you love. He may not be everything you need but damn that Pat Benatar concert was fun, or how cool was it to cuddle while watching Venus Williams play?
The 5 guy dating method asks you to separate those feelings into categories, preventing you from putting all of your hopes and dreams into one unsuspecting dude.