Yes, it sucks to let bigots dictate your life, but it is difficult not to let racism ruin your evening.For example, one interracial couple in Houston said they stopped going to country music concerts together.People who you think are only seeing your skin might actually be seeing themselves.
You might even learn something too by stepping outside your cultural norms. We can’t help it if we have a preference for one type of look, such as one guy being attracted to skinny women with blond hair whereas another prefers curvy women with darker tones.
How can you tell when it is a fetish and not just attraction?
“He was a white guy who was 19, and he would not let it go! Instead of shunning the curious stranger, they talked to him, and “it turned out that he had just started dating a black woman and was excited to see [our relationship] was working.
It was goofy, awkward, immature, but it came from a genuine place.” You never know.
You will hear lyrics about “white bitches” and how successful black men will “leave your ass for a white girl.” Kanye West then went and married a white girl…Yes, women are seen as trophies and markers of success.