So when dating an ISTJ partner, make sure you are on time and for good measure even arrive a few minutes early when taking your girlfriend out for a movie or concert.Smarten up Appearances are quite important to people of the ISTJ type.Unkempt hair or unshaven face may be your way of taking a stand against mainstream notions of fashion and culture, but it is unlikely to cut ice with an ISTJ guy or girl.
Which is why you should avoid tantrums, emotional blackmails and extreme mood swings while dating someone of this personality type.
ISTJs dislike inconsistencies and hasty conclusions which are not logically arrived at.
Appreciate the need for organization Those of the ISJT personality type tend to follow a planned and orderly way of life.
Taking decisions and acting upon them allows them to exercise a measure of control over circumstances which is important to their sense of organization.
Mention how much you love cooking for your family and how you are thrilled by the smell of freshly baked bread straight from the oven.