Although it might still be a bit early to change your status.
If you’re dating a Swedish guy you should be aware that he probably won’t try to woo you in the classical ways.
So how do people approach one another when they go out?
Assuming that things went well at the club, sometime in the next few days one of you (it might just as well be the girl as the boy) will text the other and ask them out for a The fact that both of you are aware that you’re on a date while simultaneously pretending that it’s not a date can make things quite awkward, but that’s how it’s done.
To keep the conversation non-datish, the subjects you talk about are usually very neutral ones such as the housing market, Stockholm versus Gothenburg, how great your i Phones are, or how much the public transportation system irritates you (actually, the Swedish public transportation system is among the best ones in the world).
As such, women have control when it comes to sex and can decide whether to give in or not, while men have the control when it comes to commitment.
There will be some women who will argue with this fact, and counter by saying they know tons of women who enjoy casual sex and lots of men who are yearning for commitment.
It’s not as easy as going up to someone and offer them a drink or ask them to dance.